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<blockquote data-quote="qualitymonkey" data-source="post: 172582" data-attributes="member: 34">&quot;Thank you for sharing. I am in a similar situation. My LO is a musician who I have been obsessed with for the last 4 years. 5 weeks ago I decided to do ‘No Contact’. It has been very gruelling and I haven’t felt the benefits of it yet, however I’m hoping they will come. The reason I am telling you this is because I believe No Contact could help you as well. This would mean avoid looking at Zendayas’ pictures, removing her as your screen saver etc. the trouble however is that it can be hard to let go of someone when you have such strong feelings for them. Sometimes I think it is best to go through the motions and really feel the limerence. I know it will be a painful experience knowing that you will never be with Zendaya, but I believe you must go through it in order to reach the breaking point where you say enough is enough. Then you can start doing No Contact.The other option is to do No Contact now. This will be extremely difficult as your feelings are still new and will be at their highest peak. It could however save you years of distress in the long run.&quot;Lmao</blockquote>

[QUOTE="qualitymonkey, post: 172582, member: 34"] " Thank you for sharing. I am in a similar situation. My LO is a musician who I have been obsessed with for the last 4 years. 5 weeks ago I decided to do ‘No Contact’. It has been very gruelling and I haven’t felt the benefits of it yet, however I’m hoping they will come. The reason I am telling you this is because I believe No Contact could help you as well. This would mean avoid looking at Zendayas’ pictures, removing her as your screen saver etc. the trouble however is that it can be hard to let go of someone when you have such strong feelings for them. Sometimes I think it is best to go through the motions and really feel the limerence. I know it will be a painful experience knowing that you will never be with Zendaya, but I believe you must go through it in order to reach the breaking point where you say enough is enough. Then you can start doing No Contact. The other option is to do No Contact now. This will be extremely difficult as your feelings are still new and will be at their highest peak. It could however save you years of distress in the long run." Lmao [/QUOTE]

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