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Viesti: <blockquote data-quote="qualitymonkey" data-source="post: 193817" data-attributes="member: 34">"This is actually very normal. Many people suffer with some form of gender dysphoria for a little while and then go into disistance, as if they were never gender dysphoric in the first place. This is why it’s a good idea to not rush into transitioning and instead, talking it out first, because over time, you may feel you don’t feel the same way.It may come back, it may not. I can only speak to personal experience as mine comes back sometimes when depression hits me a certain way, and may linger for a couple days after the initial trigger, but always goes right back away. This could easily be different from person to person though."Huh?"I’ve never heard of a case where it just went away. An individual may learn to cope with their gender disphoria, they may transition or they may kill themselves."Do i just have to accept im apparently trans cause everyone says so? I definitely didn't think i was tbh."It can. It’s quite rare, but our brains aren’t just a static lump of flesh - it changes throughout our lives. Now, the neural structures associated with our sexual traits don’t tend to change a lot throughout our lives - but just because it’s uncommon doesn’t mean that it doesn’t happen.That said, there’s a much more common reason why gender dysphoria would appear to disappear without actually going away - and that’s because our brains are exceptionally good at blocking out things that are painful for us - and gender dysphoria is a HELL of a painful thing to deal with. This doesn’t mean that your dysphoria has gone away - it’s still there eating away at your mental health, you’re just not consciously aware of it during that time. Often, this means that the next time you’re aware of your dysphoria is when it’s driving crippling depression or some other major mental health issue. So, even though it might go away, you definitely don’t want to count on that. Get in touch with a qualified therapist, and work through this. Even if you’re not transgender, having someone to help you work through the issues you’re experiencing will help you out a LOT, and is something I wish we saw as being as expected as going to the doctor every year."So.... What? Okay so um... What are you talking about? So i might or might not be trans? Anyway.Of course, koko viime yön silloin kun olin unen rajamailla välillä niin olin ahdistunut koska tiesin etten saa mun sukupuolta mitenkään pois ja halusin sen pois heti..... Olin unenpöpperössä vaan ajattelin silleen "..... Miten tyttöyden saa pois" ja sit varmaan taas nukahdin. Siis en varmaan noilla sanoilla mut perus idea oli ton tyyppinen koska muistan mitä kärsimystä tunsin siinä herätessä ja tiesin koko ajan etten voi tehdä yhtään mitään. Se oli pelottava tunne. Tai tosi tuskallinen ja järjetön häpeä yhä. En vieläkään pysty toimimaan, oli pakko tulla omaan huoneeseen sen jälkeen kun heitin siteen roskiin koska tulin niin kuormittuneeks niistä tunteista ja häpeästä siis.</blockquote>

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