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<blockquote data-quote="qualitymonkey" data-source="post: 206578" data-attributes="member: 34">&quot;Wait what now? Yes I'm in love with him NOW, i wasn't in love with him THEN. how can I assign meaning to it when the meaning came immediately to my head? It was an immediate thought. I couldn't do anything it just came to my head. So it's my fault that this happened? I already said it might or might not be true. I really just dont get where you're coming from. Like, I'm sorry it happened to me? This was 5 years ago so a long time. I dont believe in it 100 % or anything. But yeah i am in love because I can't just snap out of it immediately. I might discuss this in therapy but i got more important things to discuss first than this. But yea i might. Harbor delusion? I mean yeah i could have stopped believing in it now, and tbh i sometimes DON'T believe in it. Sometimes I do. What do you want me to say? Try having that shitty experience once and you'll know it's not easy. Let alone multiple times and some of them became true. If that happened to you you would know it's horrible.&quot;You had a moment where you enjoyed a song and felt weird about it, then assigned meaning to your feelings and harbored delusion.&quot;I dont think i enjoyed the song yet since it was the first fucking snippet so the thought came too fast to me to have time to enjoy the song first... It was like a voice saying (not really a voice though) &quot;your husband&quot; like snap 🫰🏻, just like that. It was seriously fast. I probably listened to the snippet for 4 seconds or something. And i already had the thought &quot;my husband?&quot; Like in that way. It happened in fucking seconds. I didn't have time to wonder about it until later of course. It was an immediate thought but god knows WHY it came to me???AnywaysAlso i had forgotten the whole thing sometime during 2021 i think, i fell for him in july 2022, and only remembered the thing in November 2022. So I didn't spend that much time thinking about that.&quot;6 months ago lol.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="qualitymonkey, post: 206578, member: 34"] "Wait what now? Yes I'm in love with him NOW, i wasn't in love with him THEN. how can I assign meaning to it when the meaning came immediately to my head? It was an immediate thought. I couldn't do anything it just came to my head. So it's my fault that this happened? I already said it might or might not be true. I really just dont get where you're coming from. Like, I'm sorry it happened to me? This was 5 years ago so a long time. I dont believe in it 100 % or anything. But yeah i am in love because I can't just snap out of it immediately. I might discuss this in therapy but i got more important things to discuss first than this. But yea i might. Harbor delusion? I mean yeah i could have stopped believing in it now, and tbh i sometimes DON'T believe in it. Sometimes I do. What do you want me to say? Try having that shitty experience once and you'll know it's not easy. Let alone multiple times and some of them became true. If that happened to you you would know it's horrible. "You had a moment where you enjoyed a song and felt weird about it, then assigned meaning to your feelings and harbored delusion." I dont think i enjoyed the song yet since it was the first fucking snippet so the thought came too fast to me to have time to enjoy the song first... It was like a voice saying (not really a voice though) "your husband" like snap 🫰🏻, just like that. It was seriously fast. I probably listened to the snippet for 4 seconds or something. And i already had the thought "my husband?" Like in that way. It happened in fucking seconds. I didn't have time to wonder about it until later of course. It was an immediate thought but god knows WHY it came to me??? Anyways Also i had forgotten the whole thing sometime during 2021 i think, i fell for him in july 2022, and only remembered the thing in November 2022. So I didn't spend that much time thinking about that." 6 months ago lol. [/QUOTE]

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