I can't put this into words any other way, so I'm gonna say it in English. I apologise.
Okay, so, I am very quick to judge people based on their actions and behaviours. And when the judgement is negative, I lose my trust and respect towards them.
My friend told me about her and her friends' bar adventures. Just the word "bar" lowered my respect towards her. Then she told me about they got drunk. Again, respect -30%. And as she told the story, she swore and cursed so much, so respect -20%.
Maybe it's because she told it to me through a call and not face-to-face. I don't know.
And because I don't like swearing, drinking and other activities of the nightlife, I feel like such an asshole.