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[qualitymonkey]

It just cant be right

No

Its not

I will tell you that

It was not true

 

[qualitymonkey]

Orchidsexual is an orientation where one feels sexual attraction, but does not desire a sexual relationship

Ok so it cant be actually orchidsexual then, to be precise

 

[qualitymonkey]

Guess im just allo whos very picky about what sexual acts i can do, and its not many. So nothing like a traditional sex and only very mild things.

 

[qualitymonkey]

Dunno its just allo probably although its not normative either

 

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The only thing i found was of course sex-ambivalent

• They may be favorable towards certain sexual acts, but repulsed by other common sexual acts.

Mut se ei kerro mitään siitä oonko mä ace vai allo, but frankly, i do not give a shit.

 

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All i know is that a majority of people doesnt reject all those common sex acts, and only is okay with very mild things. So im definitely in the minority with that.

 

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Call it sex-ambivalent or whatever, i domt care

 

[qualitymonkey]

All i know is that im in the minority

 

[qualitymonkey]

Its not normative, so

 

[qualitymonkey]

So okay, maybe im not orchid but im sex-ambivalent

 

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But at least im probably, possibly okay with some mild stuff

But i can immediately tell you im not okay with anything more than that

Not in a real situation

 

[qualitymonkey]

Oh eunkwang 😩😂 although idk

I dont feel horny atm at all so xDD but hes lovely

UGH i hate the lgbt community it ALWAYS goes like this, like everything is completely clear to me but then i start to read about labels and it gets less clear 😭😂 like everything was fine 😭 and now im like.. yeah.. something.. i hate.. everything.. though..

 

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K i dont have a label

 

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Its just the fact that i only (possibly) want mild stuff, and nothing more than that.

Call it whatever you want to, but thats how it is now.............. Sorry...

 

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Haha

My future (non-existent) partner will be having a blast cause i dont want to do much

 

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If it was eunkwang and how exactly does it differ from what he has now?

Yes, ALL THE SEX he has now..... Probably a lot..... Im saying he doesnt have ANY 😂 korkeintaan solo sex like please we all know it, hes not the kind of person to have any one night stands (yes, i am sure, dont @ me) and he possibly cant have a girlfriend and hide it that well 🤔🤔🤔🤔 i dont think he could have a gf at the moment i swear we would know... Right? Idk. Or if he hides it really well maybe its possible

But anyways

Definitely i dont give a shit what my "future partner" (who doesnt exist) wants from me because i wont do much, and i definitely just fucking wont do much okay

Like its so fucking clear

Whoever i might date just has to fucking deal with it or fucking leave me then. Asiasta ei keskustella.

(Unless i change my mind but thats a completely different topic)

 

[qualitymonkey]

Mun pahimpia pelkoja on tilanne jossa koen velvollisuudeksi, edes pienesti, tehdä jotain ällöttävää

 

[qualitymonkey]

Elikkäs any romantic relationship ever

 

[qualitymonkey]

Unless its with a person who doesnt want sex

If they expect sex... I dont wanna be in that relationship

 

[qualitymonkey]

Fucking hell

I will have to make it very clear in the beginning 😭 on mun pahin pelko että joudun niin hirveään tilanteeseen

Niin paha pelko etten voi olla miettimättä sitä etukäteen

 

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Le me: *meets eunkwang*
Le me: *surprisingly something romantic happens and starts to date eunkwang*
Le me immediately after any kind of dating stage starts: BUT HEY, are you sure you want to be with me? Because absolutely dont expect sex from me okay. You can now leave if you want to but never expect sex from me because we dont know if that ever happens

👁️👄👁️

With this talk i will make sure everyone knows they could end up being miserable without sex so they can leave immediately if they want to....

 

[qualitymonkey]

Honestly, what i could also do is just straight up say im asexual

Although for example eunkwang doesnt know what it is XD some people know and some dont

 

[qualitymonkey]

Fuck it

Im just gonna say leave or not but DONT EVER CRY TO ME about sex because i will show you the door the moment you start whining

 

[qualitymonkey]

Asiasta ei keskustella 😂

 

[qualitymonkey]

Ja tämä sulkeekin pois noin 90 prosenttia kumppaneista

 

[qualitymonkey]

Jäljelle jää ehkä pari ihmistä koko maailmassa LOL

 

[qualitymonkey]

No eunkwang kyllä ainakin tietojeni mukaan pitäis olla sellanen ettei mun tarvis pelätä mut niin

 

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You never know

I have trust issues So you never know

Siis muutenkin koska oon lukenu niin paljon muiden kumppaneist niin mul on oikeesti pahoja luottamusongelmia yhtään kehenkään ja pelkään yli kaiken, joten

 

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Everyone always says oh eunkwang is so sweet and kind

And im like yeah

And i think i would trust him

But im scared as hell anyway

 

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Like no one is allowed to do that shit to me