I just found this page so will respond even though your post is more than 5 years old. I wrote above that some women are naturally pendulous/saggy, from their teen years, and other women still have a round/perky shape even when they get old. It's just what your genes are coded for. It's good to hear that you accept who you are. I do wish "the media" would stop presenting round as the "correct" shape, so that women who don't have round breasts don't have to go through their early years feeling like there's something wrong with their bodies. For what it's worth there *are* guys (and I'm sure, girls too) who prefer their partners have "bags".