I would ask others, if you don't already use the term "pendulous", try to do so.
I once equated the term comparison of "sagging" and "pendulous" to that of "retarded" and "special needs", hoping to make a point. It didn't appear to have worked. Folks can be offended by the term "sagging" just as folks can be offended by the term "retarded." Why not use the less offensive term if you lose nothing in doing so?
So, what is "pendulous"? It's most literal definition, according to dictionary.com: hanging down loosely (with an example of "pendulous blossoms"--now that sounds quite pretty...makes me think of lilacs :) )
What the fuck